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We’ve all been there.

We start an activity—any activity—folding clothes, washing the car, writing a paper, preparing tax information, and then, out of nowhere, our focus simply abandons us. But why? Are some of us just predispositioned to distraction? Is it a chemical problem, like ADHD? Or can we simply organize our lives to focus better? Umm…what was I saying? Oh, yes! We CAN organize for focus. Hooray!

The Buttoned Up team got the chance to speak with Harvard Medical School neuropsychologist Dr. Jerome Schultz who agreed to answer our questions. After a lengthy and fascinating discussion about ADHD in both children and adults (more info on the topic can be found in his book Nowhere to Hide: Why Kids with ADHD and LD Hate School and What We Can Do About It, we came to the conclusion that people are a little bit too liberal with the “A.D.D.” (ADHD) label.

In the words of Dr. Schultz, “ADHD is a clearly diagnosable neuro-biological disorder, which is characterized by developmentally inappropriate impulsivity and inattention and occurs in about 4.4% of adults.” So, rather than “having “ADHD,” the majority of the distracted masses are simply failing to organize life in a way that promotes and maximizes our ability to focus.

So how does one organize life in a way that promotes rather than diminishes focus? Dr. Schultz kindly shared some tips with us. We were surprised at how simple they were.

The brain is an organ

Duh. But do you ever really think about it as one? The brain is an organ that controls focus, thinking, and pretty much literally everything else that you do or feel. Everything. But just like all of our other organs, to function properly and efficiently it requires some very basic things: sleep, exercise, hydration, and a healthy diet. Surprised? We didn’t think so.

Somewhere the message gets lost in translation. If you are having trouble focusing ask yourself if you’re treating it as one: Have I eaten today? Did I sleep well last night? When was the last time I exercised? Am I eating in a way that promotes or diminishes focus? If the answer to any of these questions is no (with most of us, at least one will be) then perhaps it’s time to organize your life in an effort to focus better. Write down one of the things that you can be doing better—whether it be going to sleep before midnight, exercising daily, eating five fruits a day, or drinking more water— and then, for at least a week, make sure to include that thing in your life. If you still have a problem focusing, then give it some more time. If nothing is working and you are as fit as a fiddle, then perhaps there is another agent of distraction in your life.

Stress is stressful

Even with a healthy lifestyle, sometimes stress can leave us unfocused. But Dr. Schultz gave us one of his techniques to aid focus under stress.

Talk down bad stress.
Dr. Schultz distinguished between bad as good stress. Good stress is normal, and it gets us ready to take on life, but bad stress simply hinders us. Schultz characterizes bad stress, as stress that comes with a sense of despondency—stress in response to something we cannot control—or something that we at least feel is out of our control. But there is a solution.

You can talk yourself down from this stress, literally. Tell yourself that it won’t be easy, but that you can still do it. Use inner language to guide your thoughts, and employ methods to get through whatever it is that it causing this bad stress. The key is in believing that you can get through this situation.

Seek help. Maybe you do have ADHD

If you’re living a healthy lifestyle, and managing your stress effectively but still can’t seem to focus. Make an appointment with a doctor to find out. It can’t hurt.

Simple recap
1. You Probably Don’t Have ADHD
2. To focus better: Eat well, sleep well, stay hydrated, and exercise
3. Bad Stress Takes Away Your Ability to focus, so pat yourself on the back and tell yourself that everything will be alright; up until now you’ve dealt with whatever situation life has thrown at you, this won’t be any different.
4. If you really feel that you have ADHD, seek professional attention. Even if your diagnosis is incorrect, a physician may have specific answers to your problem focusing.

How do you stay focused when you find yourself constantly distracted? Please comment below.

This is the third installment of a four-part series on how I transformed myself from frozen food queen to healthy weeknight chef. Yes, it is possible to go from almost never cooking anything from scratch to cooking virtually everything from scratch. Even if you work full-time like I do. It may take awhile (I took a full year), but you can do it.

If you missed the other installments, you can read about phase I (Fits & Starts) here and phase II (Mastering the Basics) here.

Experimenting with New and Fun

This third phase of the year of my transformation was all about branching out from the basics and experimenting a bit.

As we headed into the summer months, our local farmers market opened and shopping suddenly became really fun for the whole family. We got in the habit of walking to it every Sunday and discovering new things to try, from leeks to kale, mustard greens, pasture raised chickens, and tomatillos…

Typically I’d create the week’s menu by outlining the building blocks for our meals, namely the proteins and the grains. But then I’d leave the vegetables and sauces up for grabs. The overflowing bins of vegetables at the market never failed to steer me in interesting directions.

One evening, a tomatillo salsa verde made a wonderful accompaniment to talapia.

The kids loved it, and my husband begged me to make the salsa again just to have on hand. It was that good.
{image & recipe via: Pinch My Salt}

Another night, I whipped together a leek tart. This is a wonderfully fast and relatively easy dinner to make. Perfect for those nights when you look in the fridge and don’t have too much left in there. I had tried my hand at an apple pie or two, so making my own crust wasn’t entirely a new thing. The good thing about a homemade crust is that it is generally delicious – even if it doesn’t come out perfectly flaky. Don’t be intimidated.

While at the beach with family, on my night to cook, I tried my hand at homemade pizza.

While not something I recommend for large parties (we were 28 people – oven space fell a little short), it is a great and really easy dinner for a single family. I have fallen in love with Tyler Florence’s pizza sauce recipe and use the pizza dough recipe from the back of a package of Fleischman’s pizza yeast. It has become our new go-to Friday night recipe.

Quinoa burgers made it in to the menu set.

I’ve tried these with and without eggs (without when my vegan relatives were visiting at Christmas). When making them without the eggs, just use something like cornstarch or a little extra flour to make them stick together. The tzatziki sauce that goes with this recipe is insanely good, but I’ve found you only need 1/2 to 1/4 of what’s called for, so I usually half the recipe. In general, Eating Well Living Thin is a wonderful resource for delicious and healthy recipes. I highly recommend perusing her blog.

Fish tacos were another hit of the summer.

And super, super easy. The tangy sauce is delish, but like the tzatziki sauce for the quinoa burgers, a little goes a long way. Definitely 1/2 the recipe for it.
{image and recipe by Daisy Cooks Sometimes}

And how could I forget this beautiful recipe for Thyme Scented Salmon with Tuscan White Bean Salad that I found in a Cooking Light Magazine from May 2003? I had stashed it away with my cookbooks and forgotten about it until I was hunting for some new and different dishes. It took a little longer to make as there are quite a few fresh ingredients to chop. But aside from all the chopping, there is nothing complicated about it. I think the elbow grease is worth it as it is both melt-in-your-mouth delicious and wonderfully nutritious.

The bottom line is, once you’ve mastered some basics, branching out an adding new and exciting dishes to the menu set is critical in helping maintain momentum. For me, I found that experimenting kept interested and excited about cooking in this stage. It kept me from stagnating.

Of course, not every dish I tried came out beautifully. But as I gained confidence, my fear of failure melted away. Nothing was ever so bad it was inedible.

My rule of thumb is that I have to prepare a dish three or four times before I really “get” how to both cook and flavor it to my (and my boys’) taste.

Confection Heaven

Dinners weren’t the only thing that I experimented with in this phase. I also threw my hat into the baking and confections arena. Because I love me some sugar.

It all started with my oldest son’s birthday. We decided to throw him a monster truck themed birthday party in our back yard, and I felt compelled to bake him a proper monster truck cake.

Miraculously, my gamble paid off. You can read the step-by-step monster truck cake tutorial here.

Bolstered by my monster truck cake coup, I leaned on my aunt to teach me how to make bread from scratch and she kindly obliged.

Now, once a month, I turn to this step-by-step bread-making tutorial and make four loaves for the month. I keep one loaf out and freeze the others, pulling them out as needed.

Once you start making your own bread, it’s pretty impossible to go back to the store bought kind. I’ve only had to buy bread twice since last summer. Once when we were just back from vacation and had nothing in the pantry, the other when I was battling the flu.

As the summer fruit season kicked into high gear, we also enjoyed

Strawberry shortcakes

{image and recipe via Fine Cooking}

Julia Child’s apple tarts

I followed the recipe from Julia Child’s The Art of French Cooking, but this recipe from the Little Blue Hen looks about the same.
{image and recipe via: Little Blue Hen}

Paula Deen’s peach cobbler

Now, this one isn’t for every day as it is not the healthiest concoction. But can I just say, we all went weak at the knees on this one. With fresh picked peaches, it is simply divine.
{image and recipe via: Food Network}

A doggie birthday cake for my youngest

And my personal favorite, raspberry jam.

Since raspberry jam was the very last thing my mom ever made, making it held special significance for me. Surprisingly, it only took 35 minutes from start to finish. And wow, so good. Next summer, I will be making lots, lots, lots more as we plowed through ours before winter really ever set it.

Looking back, the key to maintaining my momentum in this arena was clearly just being willing to experiment – and fail. My first apple tart looked pretty sad. But it tasted great. Each time I make it, it gets prettier and prettier. My first batch of raspberry jam was a disaster. I had to toss the lot because I overcooked it. But I tried again and it turned out beautifully.

Indeed, the overarching theme to this entire journey has been: if at first you don’t succeed…try, try again.

What would you cook if you weren’t afraid to fail?

Your heart is pretty, darn incredible. Weighing in at a mere 10 ounces, this fist-sized organ can pump blood through about 100,000 miles of branching blood vessels to every, single cell in your adult body in under a minute. Literally, in the time it takes you to read this paragraph your heart will have pumped blood through vessels, which if placed end-to-end, would stretch around the earth about four times.

Yet it’s also an organ that is put to the test by our hectic, calorie-laden, stress-filled existence. Heart disease is the number one killer in America. Every year, cardiovascular problems cause half of US male deaths, a third of them by complete surprise. Women aren’t immune either. Heart disease kills more women than men every year; almost every minute, a woman in the U.S. dies from it. These are grim statistics, yes. But the good news is that with a little bit of organization and work, you can significantly reduce your risk of heart disease.
Here are four things you must organize to proactively protect your heart health. Make a pact with yourself (and family members) to cross these things off of your list by the end of the month. For added motivation and accountability, check in with us on your progress at facebook.com/getbuttonedup.

1. Get Screened During Your Annual Physical.

Regular cardiovascular screening is a critical tool for maintaining cardiovascular health because can help you identify risk factors before they are a significant problem. Every adult over the age of 20 should get the regular cardiovascular screening tests each year. Be sure you and your doctor discuss the results and general trends of your blood pressure and cholesterol level checks – sometimes a look at the cold, hard data can be just the wakeup call you need to change your dietary and exercise habits. If you are over the age of 45, you should also get blood glucose levels checked, and if you are “high risk,” you may want to ask your doctor about getting a C-reactive protein (CRP) test, which can be used to evaluate your risk of developing coronary artery disease. If you haven’t scheduled your annual physical yet and it’s been more than a year since you have seen your doctor, do not finish reading this article. Stop. Go pick up your phone, call your physician, and book your physical.

2. Know What Questions to Ask Your Health Provider.

Did you know that heart disease manifests itself differently in men than it does in women? Is your doctor aware of your family history or heart disease? It is critical that you have an open and productive dialogue with your physician about your risks, recommended tests, etc. The Boston Scientific website has some excellent sample questions to help get you started. But the bottom line is: don’t be afraid to ask. There is no such thing as a stupid question when it comes to proactively managing your health.

3. Move for 30 Minutes Most Days.

An in-depth study by a professor at the University of South Carolina’s Arnold School of Public Health showed that your cardio respiratory fitness level is the number one predictor of death. In lay terms, that’s your fitness level. The best way to boost it: walk for 30 minutes every day. If you haven’t seen this informative, animated You Tube video from Dr. Mike Evans about the profound impact of exercise, you should watch it today.

4. Turn Out the Lights Earlier.

Getting enough sleep is important for more than beauty reasons. Researchers at the University of Chicago have found that too little sleep is linked to increased calcium buildup in your arteries, which can lead to the plaques that cause heart attacks and strokes. The study found that one hour less of sleep per night leads to a 16% increase in coronary calcium. So this month, start tracking how many hours of sleep you get a night. If you notice that you are routinely getting less than 7 or 8 hours of sleep a night, make an effort to out the lights earlier. If you need it, set an alarm to ring 30 minutes before your ideal bedtime as it’s easy to get lost in a TV show, your friends’ Facebook status stream, and emails. But none of them are worth your health, right?

At the beginning of 2011, I decided to switch up my typical approach to making New Year’s resolutions. Rather than chasing five or ten different goals (and accomplishing maybe two-thirds of one of those), I decided to switch gears and make one big resolution — one that honored my mom and enabled me to keep her presence in my childrens’ lives.

The goal

My one resolution was to go from someone who at dinnertime relied heavily on this…

…and this:

To a mom who whipped up some healthy goodness like this at least six nights a week…

{image via: Little Yellow Kitchen}

…and even bakes her own bread.

A tall order to be sure.

But I figured that, given the time horizon, it was within the realm of possibility.

As it turns out, I stuck with it and have become one of those people I used to eye suspiciously, if not downright incredulously: one who genuinely enjoys cooking dinner. But you know what I enjoy even more? Three boys who actually inhale quinoa.

I swear it makes me want to break out into song every time I see it happen.

Rest assured, my path to culinary glory has not been a straight one. No significant behavioral overhaul is though, which is why I thought it might be helpful to share some of the key lessons from my journey. I know I can’t be the only person who relied too heavily on packaged, processed foods in order to get dinner on the table, right?

The Journey

While I wasn’t conscious of it at the time, I gradually worked my way through four distinct phases between January and December. During the first phase, I flailed around and generally stumbled more than I succeeded. In the second phase I started to get my sea legs. By the time I got to the last two stages, I was really having some fun.

Over the next few days I am going to share with you the details from each stage of the journey. I’ll dole it out in bite-sized pieces because, as my mom always said, a little bit of chocolate every day is SO much better than a pound of chocolate all at once. Start here for the embarrassing recap of the first phase of my journey from frozen dinner queen to healthy weeknight cook.

Have you ever made a significant behavioral change? What was it? How long did it take to stick? Did you go through “phases?”

When I think about all the things I’m hoarding, the ones I think are the worst for me are the beliefs and emotions in my head.

I tend to find it hard for me to let go of negative feelings and this emotional clutter is interfering with my life. That’s why I need to put an end to it NOW.

I just recently discovered certain things about myself. I hoard certain beliefs. I am very attached to wanting the people I love interact with me in specific ways. When they don’t act the way I want them to, even if they are showing their love in other ways, I withhold my expressions of love, or get angry and frustrated.

I had to clean out my own emotional “closet” to make room for the idea that everyone is different and people don’t have to express their love YOUR way to make it real/meaningful. Every day, I need to remind myself of this so my emotions don’t control me – I control my emotions.

One of the problems with hoarding is that it doesn’t create the space for anything new to come into your life. It doesn’t matter if what you’re hoarding is physical or emotional. If you don’t have room for new things or new experiences, you’ll just keep recycling the same old stuff and eventually drown in your sea of stuff.

What are some of the beliefs or emotions you hoard? Are you willing to release your hoarder’s grip on those beliefs to create room for something new and different?

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Cleaning For A Reason Week!

Nothing makes me feel better as when my home is clean and shiny. I’m pretty sure most, if not all women would feel the same way. But when you are ill, undergoing cancer treatment, let’s face it, the focus is on getting through the treatments and getting better – not on cleaning.

That’s where Cleaning For A Reason week – April 18-April 24 – comes in.

Cleaning For A Reason is a nonprofit organization that recruits local, professional cleaning services to provide free home cleanings for women undergoing cancer treatment. They connect the patient applicant to the cleaning service partners. Women undergoing cancer treatment need to feel as good as possible and this organization is a great help!

Founded in Texas in 2005 it is rapidly expanding to cover all 50 states. For more information and a list of participating cleaning services in your area, visit http://www.cleaningforareason.org/maidservice.php

Wish you could help? Well you can!

Hoover (as in Hoover vacuums and carpet cleaners) plans to donate 700 vacuums throughout the year to participating cleaning services, and has been a charity partner with Cleaning For A Reason for the past two years. Hoover will donate $1 to the cause for every new Hoover Facebook “like” and new Twitter follower, up to $25,000.

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How do I know? I was asked by Pure to try their organic bars and let you know what I thought.

I was slightly hesitant because, like you probably, I am used to bars that are like eating dried mud with stones and twigs in it. They are so dry you have to have water or a cup of coffee with them just to get them down. Or else they look and taste like a candy bar and the contents aren’t much better either!

But I found Pure Bars to be moist, sweet, chewy and really, REALLY good! I am not a big Orange lover unless it’s the actual fruit. Too often it tastes like “Tang” – manufactured and processed. However, when I opened the Cranberry Orange bar I could actually smell the oranges! And the taste! OMG! Awesome. Same with the Wild Blueberry, and Cherry Cashew and Apple Cinnamon – well – all of them really! (Although I was not crazy about the Chocolate Brownie – I would eat it if the others were not available and others in the household LOVED it!)

I was pleasantly surprised and I am a convert! These bars appear small, but they are filling. I also liked that they can be easily thrown in a backpack, purse, glove box, pocket or cookie jar without any guilt!

There are six different bars to choose from and they are hardy little things sure to please the palette as well as the body’s nutritional needs. I liked that the ingredients are smack dab on the front of every bar – like they are wearing the ingredients proudly.

I ate one a day for six days and then started all over again! If you know of anyone with special dietary needs, these bars may help supplement their diet.

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One Stop Health Organization

When was your last checkup? If it’s been 18 months since you went to the doctor, stop putting it off! It’s easy to let “busy-ness” be the excuse for falling behind on your routine healthcare visits. But it’s also a pretty lame excuse for not taking care of the most important thing you have: your health. It’s the start of a new year, and the perfect opportunity to turn over a new leaf. Take a moment now for you and organize a few visits that will safeguard your own well being.

Sarah on “Take Care of Everyone at Once”

Alicia on “one week a year”

What doctors do I need to visit on an annual basis? We’ve mapped it out for you, and if you need it, your whole family too. Go through the list today and make relevant appointments before the day gets away from you. If you’re under water with work right now, schedule visits for the summer months, when schedules tend to be a little less hectic. The good news – when you schedule your appointments far enough in advance, you will usually be able to get the coveted first appointment, before the doctor is running late.

List of appointments:

For You:

For Him:

For Kids: